Archive for April, 2010

Wedding Advice when dealing with your Entertainment.

Monday, April 26th, 2010

If you are getting married in 2010 you should have already booked your entertainment months ago. Most couples wait to within 6 months or less to book their DJ or band, this is unfortunate as often the only entertainers left with any open dates are either exceeding the budget or simply no good which is why no one books them. Also what is missed is the opportunity to get to know and become familiar with your entertainers. You should already met the person who will be entertaining at your event. Not the sales person, not a chat on the phone, but physically met in person the person picking your music and following your plan. If you have not already met the person who will be on site at your event, make it a priority. Personality is key, you want to be sure the person gets you, your wants and you feel comfortable. You don’t want someone who might rub off the wrong way or have their own agenda for your part. You have plan you want them to follow.

Do you have a plan? More and more I find that couples really have no idea what they want or have a very general idea. As a Professional Entertainer it is part of what I do to follow your agenda and help you plan out a reception that will flow smoothly. Too often there is no plan and the entertainer is forced to wing it or constantly look for direction which can often lead to them following their own preferred plan which may not suit you. If you don’t have a plan look to a day of coordinator or consult with an experienced professional to help you plan out your entertainment plan, then make sure your Entertainment is online and understands your plan.

Keep in contact. Most people book then forget, and you get filed away with out a second thought until a week or two before your wedding. At least once a month be in contact with your entertainer. There are some benefits like becoming familiar with them, you will build up confidence as your entertainer gets to know you, and you them. They might have some new ideas to share to wow your guests, or as often happens, plans change and with so many people involved it is the best way to make sure everyone is on the same page and up to date. I can’t tell you how often venues change or even the dates and if not for e-mailing or calling my clients once a month I would have been left in the dark. I get calls every summer from brides who’s DJ disappeared or is out of contact leading up to or the day of the wedding.

Make sure you have a contract. A contract is your only recourse to get your money back if your DJ or band doesn’t show up or fails to follow your plan. If you don’t have a contract then your entertainment is not under any obligation to show up. You just gave your money away with no record of what you paid for. With so many people poseing as DJs with no real experience pretending to be DJs for the free food, booze and an excuse to party and get paid for it the risk increases every year of unlucky couples being cheated. If you don’t have a contract with your entertainment I would suggest you draw one up and have them agree to it.

Music lists. In a 4 hour period you can expect to hear between 65-75 songs. It’s good to have a do not play list and have your entertainment agree to this list. Your entertainer should be experienced enough to keep a party lively with out needing t play the macarena, ymca, bird dance, mony mony or any other commonly played song that most people would rather not hear. If your entertainer brags a 20 thousand or more song inventory, they should also know how to use it and not have to lean on a commonly played list of songs that is 20 years old. (yes, there are DJ’s that play the exact same songs, in the exact same order every time they DJ no matter where it is). There is nothing wrong with a short list of songs you know your friends and family enjoy being provided and a professional entertainer will work with you to create a outline of the music you want to hear.

Set up, know when your entertainer plans to set up, how long will it take and other special requirements like power. Most DJs will only need one or two standard wall outlets on their own circuits. Bands may need a 220 outlet (oven socket) or multiple wall outlets. Know how much room they will need so you can set up the room to accommodate there set ups. I would suggest making sure your entertainment sets up no less than one hour before you expect anyone to arrive at the reception location. A professional will offer to set up several hours prior to starting to fully test their set ups. Back up equipment, although rarely needed, is something that should never be left at home. Make sure your entertainment has back up equipment and will bring it to the reception hall. With proper set up time and back up equipment your guests should be welcomed by a neatly dressed setup that is fully operational. Insurance. Is your entertainment insured. Liability insurance will not reduce the risk of potential injury. I can’t say how often I have had kids running around my equipment (when they shouldn’t be) and risk a trip and fall on a cord or stand. Thankfully I have never had to use it because I keep my set ups neat and tidy and tape down my cords. I have had a stand fall on me though because a child was running across the stage and ran into my light stand.

Liability insurance is one of those things that you hope you never need but is none the less necessary. Equipment insurance should also be part of the liability package. You do not want to be billed for the replacement of equipment if a guest gets out of hand (and it has happened) and spills a drink on a mixer or kicks in a speaker. They are risks of the job and just like car accidents are a risk on the road, every vendor should have insurance.

Checking in… Check your check list.

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

Hello, It is April and for some who have booked me it is only a few months until your big day. Also time to think about getting ready for another meeting to begin some of the planning for your big day. Your list of other vendors and a basic time line/ agenda to create the map to a positive and fun evening where you can be the guest of honor with out having to worry about what’s next and if I’m ready.

If you have chosen a different entertainer you should look at making sure these top items are checked. These are steps that you should have done with your Entertainment already or with in the next month.

1. Meet your Entertainer. It’s easy to book with a company sales person, but have you met the person who is going to be on site at your event? If not you may face personality conflicts or the person may not have the information needed to make your event a success.

2. Does your Entertainer know the location(s) for your event, ceremony and reception? Do they know how to find it? Have they been there before?

3. DO you have a basic idea of how you would like things to happen? A rough copy of your time line. Have you gone over this list with your entertainer? They make have some ideas to help it flow better or questions to help them personalize the event for you.

4. Have you chosen a theme? Colors or settings? Some Entertainers may have the ability to customize their set ups to match your themes to help create a more fluid environment.

5. Has your entertainer been in contact with you since you booked? Have they sent you e-mails, phoned or talked with a member of your wedding party? It’s a great confidence boost to keep in contact with your vendors. You don’t want to be an invoice number or a number drawn out of a hat for some random DJ to show up. Keeping in contact is the best way to make sure your event is under your control. Remember the entertainer works for you.

Just 5 simple things that can make a difference. Too many entertainers fail to keep in contact until the week or two before the wedding and by then they are so out of the loop they have no room to be creative or to personalize your event. You often get stuck with the same watered down experience the DJ is comfortable with, what the couple got the week before and will get the week after. An average show.

Wishing you all the best on your big day. I will be contacting many of my clients this week to set up meetings to ensure they get the quality show they are paying for and a party their guests will talk about.

10 Secrets to a Fun Wedding Reception

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

Here is an article I found online from one of the many sites I frequent for new ideas. I hope some of them help you out in planning for your big day.

10 Secrets to a Fun Wedding Reception

Well, they’re not really secrets — just really solid ideas.

1. Hire a Day-of Coordinator

You may have a ton of fun ideas for your reception lined up — say, a rockin’ entrance, an amazing band, and surprise late-night snacks — but the truth is it’s much harder than you’d think to keep each of those plans in check on the big day. To make sure it goes off without a hitch, book a day-of coordinator (or the most type-A friend you have who is not in the wedding party!) to oversee the details.

2. Order Good Food (That’s Not Stuffy)

Just ask yourself: What would you want to eat? If you’re not the meat-and-potatoes type, consider doing something more to your liking — maybe Spanish tapas, Mexican fajitas, or a big Italian dinner. Or skip the sit-down altogether and opt for a heavy hors d’oeuvres reception. Think mini grilled-cheese sandwiches paired with tomato soup shooters, bite-size vegetable quiches, and a cheese table.

3. Keep the Toasts Short (And Prep Your Toasters)

As meaningful and wonderful as toasts can be, it’s important that you don’t let those toasting to drone on and on. Quite frankly, it’ll put a lull in the evening. When it comes to toasts, it’s really all about quality over quantity. So direct anyone who is speaking in advance to keep their speeches to two minutes max and ask them to share any other long-drawn-out stories at a prewedding party like the rehearsal dinner.

4. Have a Game Plan for Kids

To keep the little ones entertained throughout the night (and to give their parents an opportunity to hit the dance floor!), set up an area specifically for them. In a separate room, arrange for a babysitter who can set up movies for them to watch. Or designate a couple tables just for the kids and pack them with coloring books, crayons, and small toys.

5. If You’ve Hired a Band, Make Sure There’s Good “Break” Music

We’ve all been to that wedding before: Just when the dance floor starts to get packed, the band takes a break and the party dies. Don’t let that happen to you. When you hire your band, ask specifically about how they plan to handle breaks. Some bands will take them in shifts and split off into a smaller 2- or 3-piece bands. Others will turn on filler music. If yours is planning to use filler music, ask whether you can provide the mix.

6. If You’ve Hired a DJ, Make Sure You Share the Same Tastes

Okay, this is an obvious one, but it made the list because music is a major fun factor at the reception and it has a lot to do with how long your guests will stay. The last thing you want to see is your dance floor clear out when the “chicken dance” comes on. So, make sure to talk to your DJ about your do-not-play list.

7. Add a Lounge to Your Reception

If at all possible, create a lounge-like area in your reception space. Why? People can get antsy. Instead of having your guests sit around the same dinner tables all night, a change of environment will promote conversation and keep even your nondancing guests entertained. Look into renting or borrowing couches, chairs, and other pieces of furniture that you can then stage with pillows and votive candles in your wedding colors.

8. Give Out Party Favors

Don’t forget that a reception is a party! Let your guests know that it’s okay to cut loose after a formal ceremony by passing out crazy wedding favors at the reception. A few of our favorite ideas? Funky masks, noisemakers, or Silly String. We even know one couple who handed out neckties and encouraged their guests to tie them around their heads on the dance floor. Quirky, but definitely fun!

9. Keep Your Guests Fueled

If you want to ensure an all-night crowd, arrange for your catering staff to bring out trays of late-night munchies like French fries or a self-serve taco bar. If you stick with low-key, comfort foods like those, they’ll wish the party would never end. Another great idea: Offer a coffee bar complete with special syrups and toppings to keep them caffeinated.

10. Plan a Surprise

Sometimes the best parts of a reception are the things guests don’t see coming. Surprise your guests with unexpected entertainment during the cocktail hour or reception, like a belly dancer, a mariachi band, or even a salsa dancer.

Passionate Forward Update

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

Well things look like they are moving along. As with any event of this type there are all kinds of things that can happen. Adding to the inspiring events of the evening I have been told Theo Fleury will be speaking.  Yes the same Calgary Flames NHL star. I am sure he will have a donated autographed item or two on the silent auction table.

Now don’t rush out to buy tickets to pepper your collectibles in autographs. This is not what this fund raiser is about. Though I am sure there will be some time for that later in the evening.

I am doing my due diligence in seeing what I an do to match the spring theme and flowers. Flowers usually require water and my sound equipment has a distinct phobia about that so I want to find a taste full way to adorn my set up to match the theme. Not to mention finding appropriate music for the right times and of course for the entertainment. With the good news about Theo, there was some bad news as well. The headliner band had to cancel so I am now filling the role of late eventing entertainment. I certainly hope to pick the right music to get the crowd hopping and swinging.

And yes, even though my part has grown I am still doing this on my time and dime. I hope the exposure will be well worth it as I am sure it will be. It’s hard to lose when your helping raise money for such a needed cause. After all statistics say future criminals begin with often tragic child hoods and children who are abused often become abusers them selves. So if what I am doing helps raise money for programs that can prevent a child from being abused, or provide the help and support they need at a critical time to prevent them from becoming future abusers then I feel I have done my part at least in this small way to help our society.

I hear there are still some 100 or so tickets available. Please visit the page I have set up for this event for more details. I have the poster linked to this blog as well. There is no reason this event can’t be a sell out.

Passionate Forward Event Poster 2010

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